a little advice from Norman Vincent Peale…

remember names. how simple a practice but how special we feel when someone we hardly know says “hey ____! “

be a comfortable person. be that worn out old pair of jeans, be homey

don’t let things “ruffle you“.

be normally humble. stay clear of the “i know everything” impression

be interesting. cultivate value in your presence 

sand away your scratchy traits

heal your misunderstandings and sift out your grievances 

live by the motto “i never met a man i didnt like“

congratulate, empathize, express sympathy

give strength and in return you will receive affection